Monday, November 2, 2009

Day 106 ~ Monday Makeup Day

Reading with Alyssa and Amanda

Gregory writing in his journal at the kitchen table.

John and Mike doing some research on motels and routes.

Gregory and Alex

Playing with glow sticks in Alex's bedroom.

Date: November 2, 2009
From: Prospect, Kentucky (Near Louisville)
To: Prospect, Kentucky
Route:
Miles Today: 0 miles
TOTAL MILES: 2,953 miles
Top Speed on this trip: 54.1 mph
Weather: Comfortable with a rainy evening
License Plates Collected: 5 Montana, 8 Wyoming (2 motorcycle) and 1 Idaho (found in WY), 2 Colorado, 1 Kansas (Gifted from David of Baldwin City), 1 Missouri (To be sent to Grammy’s by our new buddy, Kansas City firefighter Shawn), 1 Illinois, 3 Kentucky (2 Gifted from of Beth and Garry Feltus and one gifted from cousin John)
Flats: 9
Broken Spokes: 3
Cracked Rim: 1

I guess I needed some rest because I slept in until noon today. I was so glad that Kim and John invited us to stay another day and Mike agreed. Knowing how I've been feeling he realized an unscheduled day of rest was probably just what I needed. I do feel much better after getting some extra ZZZZZZZs. With John at work and the kids at school today, we had a quiet day at the house catching up on the blog, paying bills online and doing research for the next leg of our journey. Gregory enjoyed playing Legos, watching some cartoons, walking the dog and riding the scooter and bike. He had no trouble staying entertained until the kids came home from school.

Last night the kids started the movie "Ice Age: Dawn of the Dinosaurs" but being a school night we had to tuck them in before it was over. So, when school was out today they watched the ending and then I helped them with their homework before they headed outside for the rest of the evening until dinnertime. While Kim prepared dinner I got to snuggle up and read with Amanda and Alyssa. Alex finished some writing homework and Gregory wrote in his journal and then they were allowed to play a bit before bedtime.

The kids were pretty wound up tonight but we just let them play and have a good time knowing this was their last evening together. Gregory forgot to give his cousins the glow sticks we purchased for Halloween so that was kind of a fun surprise. They were all in Alex's bedroom, watching a program with the lights out, when I handed them to Gregory and said, "Look what we forgot." As I closed the door and he was handing them out I heard a chorus of, "Cool. You're the best cousin ever." It has been a visit he will never forget.

Day 105 ~ Sunday In The Park

Alyssa and Amanda give Mike Landes a good morning hug.

Alex and Gregory play some Lego Chess while Amanda looks on.

Gregory and the girls play with Poncho.

The kids enjoying the play set in the backyard. (Clockwise: Gregory, Amanda, Alex and Alyssa)

Scootering in Cherokee/Seneca Park

(l-r) Back Row: John, Kim and Mike Landes
Front Row: Amanda, Alex, Gregory and Alyssa
By: Mike Williams

Dorrie and Two Mikes Reunited

Poncho

Date: November 1, 2009

From: Prospect, Kentucky (Near Louisville)

To: Prospect, Kentucky

Route:

Miles Today: 0 miles

TOTAL MILES: 2,953 miles

Top Speed on this trip: 54.1 mph

Weather: Comfortable with a rainy evening

License Plates Collected: 5 Montana, 8 Wyoming (2 motorcycle) and 1 Idaho (found in WY), 2 Colorado, 1 Kansas (Gifted from David of Baldwin City), 1 Missouri (To be sent to Grammy’s by our new buddy, Kansas City firefighter Shawn), 1 Illinois, 3 Kentucky (2 Gifted from of Beth and Garry Feltus and one gifted from cousin John)

Flats: 9 (Mike found the rear tire flat down in our cousin's basement.)

Broken Spokes: 3

Cracked Rim: 1


Today was a very low-key day and just what I needed. We actually spent some time trying to research an event or museum we might go to but being Sunday we ended up just grabbing some lunch at Cafe Lou Lou and taking the kids to Cherokee/Senaca Park to ride their scooters which was just perfect. I wasn't feel well and opted out by just napping in the car while the others did a two plus mile loop in the park. I guess the kids were picking up some pretty high speeds on their scooters. It was a beautiful day with fall leaves drifting down from the trees and they had a great time.


Unfortunately, my day started on a sad note. My Uncle who has been terminally ill with cancer finally lost his fight early Saturday morning. I had a long talk with my mom this morning and I think she is having a tough time of it but of course is glad that he is no longer suffering. It has been especially hard because we lost her mom shortly before we left on this trip. After getting off the phone with my mom I couldn't stop thinking about her and what she was going through. Only a short time after our phone call I went to check email and there was a message that my Great Uncle Frank (my mom's uncle, her mother's brother) had also passed early Sunday morning. He too had cancer and though they thought the radiation was successful apparently it was just too much for him. It has been a lot to take in all at once. It really makes me think about how short life is and how thankful I am that we've chosen this path for ourselves. One never knows when one could lose a loved one and should cherish every day as a gift and live life to the fullest. If you have a dream get busy and start living it. Don't wait. There is no time like the present.

Day 104 ~ Halloween

The twins took a shine to our friend Mike Landes. He was definitely outnumbered.

Mike visits with cousin Julie and her daughter Ashley.

(Clockwise from Mike) Julie, John, Gregory, Amanda, Alex, Colton, Alyssa, Ashley, Kim and Dorrie

Amanda, Alex, Alyssa and Gregory
You can definitely tell these two are cousins!

(Front to Back) Amanda, Alyssa, Alex and Gregory

Fun On The Slide

Scary!

Amanda, Gregory, Alex and Alyssa are ready to Trick-or-Treat

Look Out! It's The Williams Family.

This neighborhood really gets into Halloween. Above the kids passed a dancing skeleton to trick-or-treat at this door and below they have their chairs out in the street along with a fire going in the portable fire pit.


It was almost a full moon...

Mike & Mike Handing Out The Treats

Gregory With His Loot

Date: October 31, 2009

From: Prospect, Kentucky (Near Louisville)

To: Prospect, Kentucky

Route:

Miles Today: 0 miles

TOTAL MILES: 2,953 miles

Top Speed on this trip: 54.1 mph

Weather: Comfortable with a rainy evening

License Plates Collected: 5 Montana, 8 Wyoming (2 motorcycle) and 1 Idaho (found in WY), 2 Colorado, 1 Kansas (Gifted from David of Baldwin City), 1 Missouri (To be sent to Grammy’s by our new buddy, Kansas City firefighter Shawn), 1 Illinois, 3 Kentucky (2 Gifted from of Beth and Garry Feltus and one gifted from cousin John)

Flats: 8

Broken Spokes: 3

Cracked Rim: 1


What an awesome day! Not only did we have an amazing time celebrating Halloween with the cousins but we also got a visit from our long lost buddy and former roommate, Mike Landes who has been living up in Cincinnati, Ohio. Mike showed up around 11:00 A.M. and we just spent the day getting caught up. It has been at least 10 years since we've seen him. In addition, Mike's cousin Julie and her kids Ashley and Colton were able to come by for an unexpected visit. The rain last night created a soggy field resulting in the cancellation of Colton's football game. We were sorry he had to miss his game but happy that we had an opportunity to visit with Julie and meet the kids. (We met Julie's husband Mark back on Thursday at the Circle K as we were riding into town...)


When Mike and I finished our 1994 bike tour and ended up back in our college town of Chico, California, we moved in with Mike Landes for a while and later the situation reversed and Mike Landes came to live with us in our little 900 square foot house on Arbutus Ave., also in Chico. You can imagine we got to know each other pretty well living in such close quarters. Suffice it to say that we have a lot of fond memories of our time living together not to mention from the various jobs and internships that Mike Landes and I did together during our college years, including work for Gallo Sales Co. out of South San Francisco and working a couple of Apple Computer, Inc. nationwide trade shows.


Mike Landes and I took the kids on a walk down to the clubhouse/playground in the afternoon and had a great time visiting and playing with the kids. Of course I took a bunch of pictures and Mike teased me about this but he knows this about me and I'm sure didn't expect that much had changed. At the park around 4:30 P.M. a van loaded with pint-sized trick-or-treaters and their parents asked us when the festivities began around here. Of course we weren't much help but seeing them made us realize things must get started before dark around here. We hightailed it back home and started to get dressed up. It seemed early but it took some time and before we could get our group picture we had trick-or-treaters coming to the door. The men stayed home to hand out candy and Kim and I walked around with the kids for about three hours. This still put us back at the house around 8:30 P.M. and we had all evening to visit. The kids ran from house to house this whole time and carried off a lot of loot. Mike and Mike said they had a fun time checking out all of the costumes while they handed out candy and it was fun for me to walk up to the porch and see the two of them sitting there together just like old times back in Chico. Today brought back a lot of great memories and also made many new ones. What a terrific Halloween we had!

Day 103 ~ Cousins



Gregory walking Poncho.

Cousin Kim, out in front of her house, is ready to go on a walk.

Gregory enjoys riding Alex's bike around the cul de sac.

Lunch at Goshen Elementary first (above) with Alex and then (below) with the twins Alyssa and Amanda.


Alyssa and Amanda help me "gut" the pumpkins. We toasted the seeds in the oven and they turned out delicious.

Amanda, Alyssa and Gregory show off the "fort" they built for their "camp out" this evening. This is their awesome play room!

The skin on this white pumpkin, that the kids picked out for Gregory, was thin enough that Gregory was able to do all of his carving on his own. He was pretty proud of himself and it turned out great. (See Below.)

Kim helps Amanda with her pumpkin.

John helps Alex put the finishing touches on his pumpkin.

Amanda, Gregory, Alex and Alyssa show off their works of art.

Gregory did this one all by himself!

Date: October 30, 2009

From: Prospect, Kentucky (Near Louisville)

To: Prospect, Kentucky

Route:

Miles Today: 0 miles

TOTAL MILES: 2,953 miles

Top Speed on this trip: 54.1 mph

Weather: Comfortable with a rainy evening

License Plates Collected: 5 Montana, 8 Wyoming (2 motorcycle) and 1 Idaho (found in WY), 2 Colorado, 1 Kansas (Gifted from David of Baldwin City), 1 Missouri (To be sent to Grammy’s by our new buddy, Kansas City firefighter Shawn), 1 Illinois, 3 Kentucky (2 Gifted from of Beth and Garry Feltus and one gifted from cousin John)

Flats: 8

Broken Spokes: 3

Cracked Rim: 1


It is so nice to be visiting family. We haven't see Kim in over 15 years and it has been so great to meet her husband John and their three delightful kids who are so close in age with Gregory. John was off to work this morning and the kids went to school so we slept in and had a nice quiet morning visiting with Kim. Gregory had a chance to ride Alex's bike and his new "sparking" Razor scooter and even got to walk Poncho around the neighborhood.


Then, we joined the kids at school for lunch. They have a beautiful new school that is just a couple of miles from their home. Kim and John told us that the developer gifted the land to the school. The school is one of the reasons this development of about 500 homes is so sought after for families with young children. We signed in at the office and down the hall we were greeted by a large colorful rainbow painted on the wall. The rainbow colors continued down the tiled hallway and broke off to the various grade level "pods". I thought this was a clever idea.


When we entered the lunchroom Gregory's eyes became as big as saucers. He stayed by my side and after taking in this noisy and chaotic scene he said, "I think I like it better on the road." The lunchroom is a social hour for the kids and I've always thought being the lunchroom aide would be one tough job. It is definitely very overstimulating in there! Even so, we all sat down at our own round table and had a great time eating with the kids. We did get scolded for "borrowing" one of the chairs that was labeled "Peanut Free Table" for kids with allergies. Oops! Alex joined us first and Gregory got to go up with him to buy a school lunch. They get to choose from a variety of items and parents can specify a "basic lunch" or the child might be allowed to purchase so many "extras." In California you might have a choice of entree until the "good choice" runs out but that is it. Lunch was Italian Dippers (cheesy bread sticks dipped in marinara sauce) which just happens to be one of Gregory's favorites. When the digital clock announced the end of lunch for Alex he grabbed a broom and dust pan and did his job of cleanup. Gregory and I were both impressed that the kids were doing the cleanup. Kim explained that all of the kids take turns at various jobs. We said goodbye to Alex and were shortly joined by the twins. They pointed their cousins out to various friends and were all smiles as we chatted and dined together.


After lunch Kim took us around to a couple of bike shops so we could find some leg warmers for me and a light attachment for our front rack. With the inclement weather we thought we should probably run a light up front (as well as in the rear) all day. The trick was finding something that would attach to our front rack since we have a handle bar bag and front panniers. We ended up adapting a bracket to our front rack to mount a Planet Bike light. We were really pleased with the service at Bicycle Sport. Mike had called ahead to see about a light and they had the perfect set up ready to go when we walked in the door.


John's mom Gussy was at the house to greet to the kids after school and when we finally arrived an hour later. The kids were wondering where we'd been and were eager to play with Gregory. We had a nice visit with Gussy who I know has been a blessing for Kim and John. The kids are lucky to have both Gussy and Kim's parents close and involved in their lives. We were sad to miss Kim's parents (Mike's Auntie Barb and Uncle Dave, Mike's dad John is Dave's older brother) but this is the time of year they spend down in Florida. We did have a nice talk with Barb on the phone though.


The kids spent the better part of the evening constructing forts out of various blankets and pieces of furniture in the bonus room and they all slept there throughout the night. It is not a surprise considering how late they were up and how hard they played together! Kim and I lasted until about midnight but Mike and John were once again up until about 1:00 A.M.

Day 102 ~ Bridge Out

Gregory reads while Mom and Dad finish packing up.

Silly Boy

Parked against an ice machine during our snack break. Kentucky is the Bluegrass State.

Asking for directions at our bridge out. The enormous cranes are pumping concrete up to the workers on the bridge. They guide the end of the nozzle and fill in the forms to create the bridge surface.

We got a hitchhiker at the construction site. It was very muddy!

Turning "the train" around to to head back out and find an alternate route.

We met Jeff shortly after the bridge fiasco and he rode with us for quite some time. Nice guy.

We were sitting at the Circle K convenience store in Crestwood, Kentucky when this guy comes up to us and asks, "Are you related to the Williams Family?" We replied, "We are the Williams Family!" It turned out to be Mark who is Mike's cousin Julie's husband. Julie and Kim (who we are staying with) are sisters! We still had about an hour to ride to Kim's house at this point.

John and the kids met us a couple miles out and picked up our trailer and panniers. John told us that a little earlier one of his UPS drivers radioed in to tell him that he'd spotted us out on the road!

We're here! Hooray! Kim and the kids introduce us to their 6-month old lab Poncho.

Date: October 29, 2009

From: Bardstown, Kentucky

To: Prospect, Kentucky (Near Louisville)

Route: Route skirting around Louisville mapped out by John Begel

Miles Today: 65 miles

TOTAL MILES: 2,953 miles

Top Speed on this trip: 54.1 mph

Weather: Shorts weather. Nice day!

License Plates Collected: 5 Montana, 8 Wyoming (2 motorcycle) and 1 Idaho (found in WY), 2 Colorado, 1 Kansas (Gifted from David of Baldwin City), 1 Missouri (To be sent to Grammy’s by our new buddy, Kansas City firefighter Shawn), 1 Illinois, 2 Kentucky (Gifted from of Beth and Garry Feltus)

Flats: 8

Broken Spokes: 3

Cracked Rim: 1


For whatever reason today I was really low energy… I did O.K the first half of the day and lunch at 5 O'clock Charlies around 1:30P.M. gave me a bit of a pick me up but when we hit a bridge out and had to back track and then made another wrong turn and had to back track my patience started to wane and I started to seriously doubt my mental ability to "stay in the game."


We were following a route that John (Mike's cousin Kim's husband) had mapped out for us so that we could avoid the busy roads in Louisville. Everything was working out great until we came to a bridge out. Gregory had been helping his dad add the mileage so Mike would know when to turn. (Gregory would tell his dad the mileage, Mike would give him the amount of miles we needed to travel before the next turn, Gregory would add it in his head and then announce the new total. Then, Gregory had to remember that new mileage marker and watch the computer to tell his dad when to turn. He did amazingly well and I was really impressed how well he handled this responsibility.)


So anyhow, in looking at the bridge situation we knew there was no way to cross. The concrete was set about half way out but they were pouring the middle section using these enormous cranes and they had steel walkways that crossed the expanse of the bridge. The workers could barely walk down the edges of the bridge on the framing to get to the middle. (Back in 1994 Mike carried our bikes across a bridge that had just been poured but their were no workers around and he could walk the narrow plywood forms that edged the bridge…) We stood there until one of the workers came over and advised us how to go back and find another bridge with a parallel crossing. It would require us to back track quite a few miles and I could tell Mike was frustrated at the thought of it. This fellow went back to work and another was leaving so we asked his opinion. He advised a different route (but wasn't from around here) so not knowing what to do we called John back and he set us back on a new course. (John works for UPS in the I.T. Department and was a great help in getting us to his home! UPS is one of the biggest employers here in Louisville…)


As we back tracked Mike kept grumbling about how it would have been nice if they would have put a sign at the intersection instead of right up here near the bridge…My comment was that he probably wouldn't have paid attention to it anyhow because in the past we've forged ahead in such situations hoping that we'd somehow be able to cross. No, he said, he would have called John if there would've been a sign… Well, lo and behold when we reached the intersection there it was, a sign that read: ROAD CLOSED 2 MILES AHEAD. We felt pretty silly. We'd been so focused on calculating our miles and making sure we didn't miss any turns that we didn't pay any attention to these bright orange signs!! Lesson learned!


Finally on course once again we were tooling along and soon met Jeff, a bike racer from the area. He enthusiastically asked about the details of our trip as he pedaled along beside us. We rode this way for quite a while and when we came to an intersection where we thought we might need to turn Mike asked Jeff about it and got the impression that if we followed Jeff up to the next turn off that it would get us to our destination. Well, once we reached the stop and talked more about it Jeff said it would actually be better if we went a mile back to the previous intersection and took that turn. "It is only about a mile back" he said. He even offered to ride back with us. In my mind I'm screaming, "Only a mile back…We've already back tracked today, there are a couple of good size hills, I'm tired and hungry and I just want to be done riding for the day and get to our cousins!" At this point if we would have made one more wrong turn I may have lost it!


When we got closer to our destination Mike was trying to boost my spirits by telling me that Kim would have a cold drink waiting for me, etc., etc. and I had to ask Mike to just not talk to me for the last couple of miles. I was on the verge of tears and I just needed to focus all my mental and physical energy on psyching myself into making it to the house. Fortunately, we'd touched base with John and on his way back from picking up the kids he found us on the road and collected our trailer and panniers and shuttled them home in the van. The last few miles we road a squirrelly triple that was free of gear. Every time Gregory would stand up on the hills to give us his usually turbo boost but the bike would sway back and forth to such an extreme that it would jolt my back. I had to ask him to sit and try for smooth even pedal strokes. Gear and no gear makes a huge difference on this kind of multiple seat bike. The greeting from John and kids helped my mental attitude but I still had to tell my legs to keep on working just a little longer. It was like the little engine that could, "I think I can, I think I can" she says to herself.


The whole family, Kim and John, the twins Alyssa and Amanda (almost 9) and son Alex (10) were out front to greet us with cameras in hand. It was so nice to receive such a warm greeting. There were hugs all around and then we put the bike in the basement and went in to meet Poncho their 6-month old black lab. She is really sweet and it has been nice getting our pet fix. The kids hit it off right away and they showed Gregory around outside including "the forest," a strip of trees and bushes between their housing development and a neighboring one. Later, he reported to me that they let him join "the club" and that I must come out and see the clubhouse. The house has an enormous bonus room on the top floor which John customized just for the kids. Gregory was of course in awe of this room and was thrilled to have other children his own age to play with. The kids got along fabulously and played really well together. Since it was a school night we tucked everyone into their own beds promising that tomorrow they could have one big camp out in the play room. They liked that idea! We also promised the kids we'd join them at school tomorrow for their lunch time.


I read with Gregory but also had to excuse myself at around 9:00 P.M. because I was so totally wiped out. I would have loved to stay up later but I just couldn't keep my eyes open. Apparently Mike and John were up visiting until 1:00 A.M. and John still had to go to the work in the morning!